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Expectations ruined thousands of lives

Friends, the expectation is not a word of eleven letters rather it is closely connected to emotions, trust, and feelings.

To expect means you’re attached to them with respect, values, or emotions. To expect means you have trust in their involvement in your life. To expect means you feel it. To expect means you’re too strong to be broken by difficulty!!!

Each and every moment you’re living with a hope of being better than the past, it is called expectation. You expect God will do best. Your happiness remains for a long hour but bad days bring your confidence down. And you feel disappointed. If you get Another option, a hope you engage yourself in that. In this way, expectation gave you lives.

Often, it seems expectation, the reason for our mood off, or disappointment. Some of you may never get hope again. I think you have made a mistake in recognizing people and their intentions. Instead of having a strong trust in your lord. You’re involved with dishonest people and making them a part of your big decision when expectations break down you are hurt much. Can’t say how and when you will take it out from there.

Don’t blame people for disappointing you. Blame yourself for expecting too much from them. You know what expectations is positively nice. It gives us hope for better, no worry it can be broken but for some moments it is like medicine for your unhealthy situation. Even though, you need to keep it within the limit.

Expectations are not bad if you keep them within the limit. Limit yourself from being closed, limit yourself from expecting people will come to you in need. Oh! Listener to your heart and can differentiate their behaviors. You know who is your real well-wisher. Then why you’re pushing yourself into the fire. Don’t expect with everyone. You can’t be everyone’s priority!!!!

Healthy expectations give you the power to fight with negativity. Yup! It’s like medicine in your difficulty. To understand! Suppose you have to admit to any central university, so you work hard for it. But also keep plan B. Eventually, you did not crack it. Your confidence level goes down But this is only plan B!! That becomes your expectation at that time and you try again with more effort. In this way, expectations give you power.

Unhealthy expectations make us feel insecure. friends! It’s truly said that the more you expect from others the more you will be insecure. Even your own actions and behavior will hurt you. Don’t think that they will understand your emotions. Emotions are nothing for this materialistic world. Why not you think of your own company. Enjoy it. No one can understand you more than you know. Satisfy your soul. Don’t wait for people to the attention to you. You need your own understanding

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Being in love in this generation is terrifying

Love is the Immortal truth of humankind no one is a stranger to this topic, so I have chosen the discussion to make you aware of what you are going through is love or attraction or something else. Oh! Dear, I have no intentions to hurt your emotions, just trying to show you the right way. you should understand it.

Does love Exist in this World?

Firstly true love exists in this world but it’s rare. Go to the history you can’t imagine it again. How much purity they have in love. But in this new generation, you can rarely find a pure heart. Because everything is becoming materialistic and people are happy with that. You are looking for your comfort that’s your unfulfilled needs. I would directly say you seek people in place of need. When it is fulfilled you will be bored of the same person. And your story will end with the line *you deserve better* this is the truth of this materialistic world.

How disgusting! The New generation is playing with love game with the intensions of winning a lot of people. They are trying to impress one after another. For more twists, if you will avoid them they will take it as a challenge, with every effort, will succeed in winning you after this. game over!!!

Does love means attraction?

Listen to me! Love is not a game to play whatever the new generation is doing it’s just an attraction they are trying to fulfill their needs. They don’t wanna their ego to be hurt. Don’t be silly, take yourself to the situation when you will get a better partner your emotions seem to change and this will be another chance or stage of your false attachment.

Oh, listener! Being in love in this generation is so terrifying. You can’t avert the requirement of love. You can’t avert the demand of your lover. you will have fear of their ignorance. You will have fear of their annoying not because you love them but also for the fear of breakup.

Does this means change or do they create misunderstanding?

Be matured! Be your own! If love is taking you to the fear. If love is creating misunderstanding between you, if love is forcing you to change, It’s not love anymore. ask yourself the reason why you love him/her. Are they important during your bad days? Do you remember him when you are happy! Do you remember him during prayers? Do you remember or want him during difficulty or do they at least try to take over it? Try to understand the difference…. . Whether it’s love or false attachment!!

Difference between attachment and love..!!

In false attachment, you will find comfort with that person but in true love, his presence will make you uncomfortable, you will seek their happiness and respect. true love doesn’t have a care what society will say, it doesn’t have care for the family will accept or not? It’s not a big issue if the family will not accept your love you are their own child they will not avoid you for more days. I don’t say to go against your parents but you keep them in your decisions. Oh! plzz take care of their happiness. Parents are a big example of true love.

True love is everlasting but attachment is encumbering. You would never be disappointed in true feelings. Even though they never express their feeling with each other, it’s the purity of their soul. In my experience, no word is discovered so far to express the feelings of pure heart and soul.

Hope! You will get it completely, so I will suggest you don’t waste your energy on false emotions otherwise nothing will be left except regret!!! You will become faithless or will be in search of pleasure by playing love games and hurting others’ feelings.

Keep in mind if someone really hurt by you because of your actions and there is no involvement of their actions then you will have to fulfill the penalty of their tears.

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