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Posted on 2021-12-032022-01-12 by uzma rahim — Leave a comment

Expectations ruined thousands of lives

Friends, the expectation is not a word of eleven letters rather it is closely connected to emotions, trust, and feelings.

To expect means you’re attached to them with respect, values, or emotions. To expect means you have trust in their involvement in your life. To expect means you feel it. To expect means you’re too strong to be broken by difficulty!!!

Each and every moment you’re living with a hope of being better than the past, it is called expectation. You expect God will do best. Your happiness remains for a long hour but bad days bring your confidence down. And you feel disappointed. If you get Another option, a hope you engage yourself in that. In this way, expectation gave you lives.

Often, it seems expectation, the reason for our mood off, or disappointment. Some of you may never get hope again. I think you have made a mistake in recognizing people and their intentions. Instead of having a strong trust in your lord. You’re involved with dishonest people and making them a part of your big decision when expectations break down you are hurt much. Can’t say how and when you will take it out from there.

Don’t blame people for disappointing you. Blame yourself for expecting too much from them. You know what expectations is positively nice. It gives us hope for better, no worry it can be broken but for some moments it is like medicine for your unhealthy situation. Even though, you need to keep it within the limit.

Expectations are not bad if you keep them within the limit. Limit yourself from being closed, limit yourself from expecting people will come to you in need. Oh! Listener to your heart and can differentiate their behaviors. You know who is your real well-wisher. Then why you’re pushing yourself into the fire. Don’t expect with everyone. You can’t be everyone’s priority!!!!

Healthy expectations give you the power to fight with negativity. Yup! It’s like medicine in your difficulty. To understand! Suppose you have to admit to any central university, so you work hard for it. But also keep plan B. Eventually, you did not crack it. Your confidence level goes down But this is only plan B!! That becomes your expectation at that time and you try again with more effort. In this way, expectations give you power.

Unhealthy expectations make us feel insecure. friends! It’s truly said that the more you expect from others the more you will be insecure. Even your own actions and behavior will hurt you. Don’t think that they will understand your emotions. Emotions are nothing for this materialistic world. Why not you think of your own company. Enjoy it. No one can understand you more than you know. Satisfy your soul. Don’t wait for people to the attention to you. You need your own understanding

Posted on 2021-11-022021-11-03 by uzma rahim — Leave a comment

Being in love in this generation is terrifying

Love is the Immortal truth of humankind no one is a stranger to this topic, so I have chosen the discussion to make you aware of what you are going through is love or attraction or something else. Oh! Dear, I have no intentions to hurt your emotions, just trying to show you the right way. you should understand it.

Does love Exist in this World?

Firstly true love exists in this world but it’s rare. Go to the history you can’t imagine it again. How much purity they have in love. But in this new generation, you can rarely find a pure heart. Because everything is becoming materialistic and people are happy with that. You are looking for your comfort that’s your unfulfilled needs. I would directly say you seek people in place of need. When it is fulfilled you will be bored of the same person. And your story will end with the line *you deserve better* this is the truth of this materialistic world.

How disgusting! The New generation is playing with love game with the intensions of winning a lot of people. They are trying to impress one after another. For more twists, if you will avoid them they will take it as a challenge, with every effort, will succeed in winning you after this. game over!!!

Does love means attraction?

Listen to me! Love is not a game to play whatever the new generation is doing it’s just an attraction they are trying to fulfill their needs. They don’t wanna their ego to be hurt. Don’t be silly, take yourself to the situation when you will get a better partner your emotions seem to change and this will be another chance or stage of your false attachment.

Oh, listener! Being in love in this generation is so terrifying. You can’t avert the requirement of love. You can’t avert the demand of your lover. you will have fear of their ignorance. You will have fear of their annoying not because you love them but also for the fear of breakup.

Does this means change or do they create misunderstanding?

Be matured! Be your own! If love is taking you to the fear. If love is creating misunderstanding between you, if love is forcing you to change, It’s not love anymore. ask yourself the reason why you love him/her. Are they important during your bad days? Do you remember him when you are happy! Do you remember him during prayers? Do you remember or want him during difficulty or do they at least try to take over it? Try to understand the difference…. . Whether it’s love or false attachment!!

Difference between attachment and love..!!

In false attachment, you will find comfort with that person but in true love, his presence will make you uncomfortable, you will seek their happiness and respect. true love doesn’t have a care what society will say, it doesn’t have care for the family will accept or not? It’s not a big issue if the family will not accept your love you are their own child they will not avoid you for more days. I don’t say to go against your parents but you keep them in your decisions. Oh! plzz take care of their happiness. Parents are a big example of true love.

True love is everlasting but attachment is encumbering. You would never be disappointed in true feelings. Even though they never express their feeling with each other, it’s the purity of their soul. In my experience, no word is discovered so far to express the feelings of pure heart and soul.

Hope! You will get it completely, so I will suggest you don’t waste your energy on false emotions otherwise nothing will be left except regret!!! You will become faithless or will be in search of pleasure by playing love games and hurting others’ feelings.

Keep in mind if someone really hurt by you because of your actions and there is no involvement of their actions then you will have to fulfill the penalty of their tears.

You can also read our blog – Students are poisoning their lives

Posted on 2021-10-312022-01-12 by uzma rahim — 1 Comment

Students are poisoning their lives.

Hey! Listener…

Today’s topic is common but we need to see this in different opinion or views. Now a day students are making themselves worthless with digital feelings or thoughts.

No matter what they learn! no matter their parents have sacrificed their life for him! no matter their elders try to make them understand the values of time and emotions! no matter at all.They are becoming selfish, rude and arrogant.These all are product of social media…

We can’t imagine students without having social media as their priority. They are busy in making friends and used to chat for pleasure, yess! this is virtual world. everything seems like your need. But the truth is completely different. Your sources of pleasure are making you unpleasant. You should be aware of this.

Students are taking it so light as the phone is part of their life. I don’t think so,we are addicted to phone,Nope! We are not addicted to phone, we are addicted to messages,games, vulgar videos and so on.

Suppose these all are provided in other source of medium more easily we would like to use that all.Dear listener phone is not an addiction your behaviour,your work are making it addiction. as you are just a learner you have no idea how and where to go.!!!

And this social media is taking you the way that make you feel pleasure. But it underestimated your real need. You have to choose that. no one is going to do so why are you wasting your time in chit chat on social media digital emotions are not truth. Its just virtual.

I feel much sorrow that. Students are poisoning their lives. They are forgetting the relationships and values.They don’t have respect for teacher also. they are thinking that teachers are as much as a friend. This is good at a limit. But Shameful..!!! Their stupidity attached with teachers for bad intentions , they are finding emotions on social media.Can’t believe how can a students think so… 😐 teachers are considered as parents. They should be seen respectfully.

Much sorrowful..!!The digital life is filling the stupidity in your mind. You need to understand it. Don’t waste your energy so that you will regret after the time.

Listener! Social media is not bad but your behaviour are making this platform worst. Plzzzzz try to feel my words you have only 10 yrs in which 15 to 21 is for hardwork. 21 to 25 age is for skill. So decide today and now how to prove yourself!! How will you get real values or emotions in future. how will you manage with all the difficulties,you have to control your emotions,you have to learn a lot of lesson.

Friends! * Don’t rush for followers or fans, you were not born to take everyone attention. *Just choose and go through the right way god will there. *Take advice of elders,they are not your enemy they will suggest you better.* live your life with some principles of goodness. Because I am remembering one day my teacher said that what is giving you pleasure now It will be the causes of your destroy one day!

Posted on 2021-10-022021-10-11 by uzma rahim — 1 Comment

Why not Men? They Also Need Empowerment

When we talk about empowerment. It seems ”everybody is busy empowering women who are preparing men for these empowered women? ” I am not saying that women empowerment is exploiting men but How can we ignore the existence of men in our society? It is important to love and support them in our lives.

Men need real help. they need empowerment emotionally and mentally. we often have complaints that guy broken my heart, used me, blaa..blaa..blaa… It’s because there is a lack of our support in their lives as a father, brother, cousin, husband, and friends. They always seem to sacrifice their needs and give priority to us as a family. but who is standing for them? We are too selfish to think of their personal life, emotions, needs, and sacrifices.

Dear sisters, It is also an orthodoxy thinking that we used to hand over car or gun to boy from childhood. If they cry we say you are a boy! Don’t cry like a girl. Oh really! I just laugh at these kinds of stuff. Although they may be strong physically that doesn’t mean They have no heart? No emotions? Why can’t They cry? They don’t show their personal problems like us. But why? Why we are making it a more orthodoxy society?

If we compare the empowerment of women to men. I think they need more empowerment because women are not tied or not responsible for look after their family, no matter how much they earn? Men are supposed to provide for the family. so they have no option instead of making themselves a strong pillar of their family. they manage everything with sincerity Just like a soldier of family. They are More accountable than us. But sorry to say we are becoming selfish. We have no care for their happiness.

I know we want empowerment. we like to be self-dependent. Dear sister, that doesn’t mean we don’t need anyone. In every moment of life, we are supported by them as a father, brother, cousin, husband, and friends. I would say without a man women’s empowerment is not possible! Look at your father, he is the person who is with you since your birth. Your brother is your childhood friend.

Why don’t you think of their struggle for making your family more strong and happy? Is anything they want in return? Why they are doing so? They have no self intentions. we talk about the empowerment of women WHY NOT MEN? They need empowerment because They are going through a lot of emotional vulnerabilities, insecurity, pressure, and torture. But they don’t express. They have to face failures in life.

One of The most common pressure that faced by man is the pressure of being well settled. And provide for the family. No doubt women have become independent but No matter how much she earn, men are supposed to provide for their family not only family but for a good society, Men are one of the major part.

So we as women are supposed to strengthen them to face challenges. It’s most important to love and support them. A strong men in society means more strong women.

In the end, I would like to thank all the men in my life as a father, brothers, teachers, and friends. So many men have helped me so much throughout my life. I can’t return them… I’m really grateful to all the men and proud of them

Posted on 2021-09-262021-10-02 by uzma rahim — Leave a comment

Do We Really Keep Promise?

Someone asked me, why don’t you trust and why is it so hard to trust people. I replied to them with a question that why is it so hard to keep a promise?

I know people make promises for good intentions but the conclusion .we find 99% fail to keep it.

If you make a promise you should realize that promise is not a word to say and win the world it’s someone’s hope. It may become the reason for happiness. It may become life. So before keeping a promise ask yourself are you able or not?

Friends! I noticed one thing about the promise. We all have someone who claims to be available for us in every situation. They promise us to be real well-wishers. I think many of them are cunning as they play with other’s emotions.

You are too innocent to know their intentions. They have nothing to do but you’re not jobless. They are satisfying their ego but you’re not understanding.

They don’t think of your feelings .their promise may become your expectations If it breaks you may break too. your hopes will be ruined. It may be the cause of vast destruction.

We should not expect anything from anyone. I have no friend circle, I am just civil to all and familiar with few. Now the matter of trust! You will meet lots of people. some people will claim to be your trust. If you agree with them. They will leave you after satisfying their intentions. You will be left in the meantime when you need.

I am sharing my personal opinion about the promise that Many people tried their level based to make me understand that they’re without any intentions. I just kept it in mind and to prove it just created a test to know. Are they real or not?

I came to the conclusion that they were just using my time to satisfy their ego. It was very surprising for me first time. After the day Never believed anyone except My lord. Because He is the only one who doesn’t like me for his shake.

I would like advice, especially to girls that In this materialistic world you have to be aware of your surrounding. Don’t give them chance to hurt you. They have many options but you will be broken easily. So plz stay away from such kinds of false people who make promises. you may understand their intention immediately if you’re aware of what they are going through.

Oh, dear! Don’t waste your values and emotions. expect less from others and trust more in yourself.

No one really cares. why don’t you know? never ever trust them. Just do your job and be busy with yourself. Think what you need is enough

So guy! Keep reading and comment what you think!

Posted on 2021-08-132021-08-14 by uzma rahim — Leave a comment

Stop Complaining

Dear friends, we covered the feelings of worthlessness ups and downs of life. that make us fall into despair.

Sometimes, we feel hopeless but we should know one thing seriously that everything happens for a good reason.

It may not be what you want but trust your creator he knows what is best for you.

God is looking for your hard work and determination. he will give you the best result. but we are taking our problems so hard. we see immediate but not the tomorrow, the tree not the fruit, thorn but not the rose.

We all are looking for the creation, not the creator. Why don’t you understand! He is improving your quality, making you strong .so that the whole criteria of the system to give or take, you may learn.

Don’t think too much of society. they would not like to see your hard work and determination. but the result so stops their useless advice in your life. Do your best whatever you do and keep patience. Stop complaining, Stop over thinking, and Trust your creator

Posted on 2021-08-012021-09-22 by uzma rahim — Leave a comment

Who’s our true friend?

Friends! Do you know the value of this beautiful relation means friendship? Let’s discuss it.

we know that we are living in a materialistic world. And it’s most critical to perceive who is our real well-wisher? For how long they will be with us? Do we have not any magical tools to know what they feel for us? How do they treat us internally? Though God has given us sincerity to distinguish what is happening around us with their actions, to understand what is good or what’s harsh?

Now the question is who is our true friend? If I say, no one, seriously no one can be more loyal than your soul. So your soul is the best and true friend ever. It knows all our situations, demands, and decisions. It supports you in every situation and tries to make you understand that something happens to learn from it. It gives a lot of sign to learn what is good or what’s not!

It’s truly said that friend in need is a friend indeed, so ask yourself who’ll be standing for you in your need,isn’t your soul? Which persuades you to keep patience.it heals our hearts when we have broken completely. That’s why the creator of the whole world gifted us the soul.

I noticed one thing that social media is becoming the platform of professional emotions. Where many have false attachment as a friend. In this way, friendship became invaluable and unemotional relationship.no one is truly attached or care.

The only best and sincere friend is our soul. But We are just ignoring it. And engaged with useless things in order to entertain ourselves. We are busy making money and living a luxurious life. rather than looking for happiness. But happiness is not in such things.

The purpose of this article…..

Be careful while making friends they may very good for you while your small mistake can make them your rival. whereas some lucky people got the sweetest friend as a gift of God. I’m also one of them. Alhamdulillah ❤.Your true friends are a blessing from God. Do they stand by your side no matter how the situation is? They will motivate you and boost up your capability. You can recognize them within your bad situation. They will never leave you alone.

In the end, you are personally advised not to share any privacy with anyone, because you don’t know what they look physically is the same behind you or not? Keep your feelings and emotions up to your soul. It’s a safe place to protect your expression of mind and heart.

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